Specialisms

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  Sexual addiction is a condition in which an individual cannot manage their sexual behavior. Persistent sexual thoughts affect their ability to work, maintain relationships, and fulfil their daily activities.

 A person with sexual addiction is obsessed with sex or has an abnormally intense sex drive. Their thoughts are dominated by sexual activity, to the point where this affects other activities and interactions. If these urges become uncontrollable, the person can have difficulty functioning in social situations.

In some cases, a person with a healthy and enjoyable sex life may develop an obsession. They may find themselves stimulated by acts and fantasies that most would never consider acceptable

Sexual addictions shares similar features to a substance addiction, the person is addicted to an activity, not a substance. Discussing your problem with a specialist in the field will help, but without this, it will only get worse.

 Internet pornography’s accessibility, affordability, and anonymity have helped the porn industry reach a whole new level. People no longer have to drive to a store to get porn; it is readily available at the click of a mouse. Porn has been normalized to the point where most men are not hiding their affinity for porn, but embracing it.  As pornography proliferates because of the Internet, it has taken a larger role in our lives. and taken over relationships. Many have been hurt by it, entertained more fantasies because of it, and gone into erectile hibernation because of it.  

Online Porn is to the Brain, like Maggots are to Meat 

Internet pornography hurts marriages. Women feel betrayed by their husbands' need to go online to be sexually satisfied. Many wives are hurt by the emotional infidelity. Nine months after her wedding, Donna found out her husband never stopped viewing online porn as he had promised. She was stunned and hurt. Describing her feelings about it she said, “I blamed myself – I wasn’t attractive enough.”  Another woman described her feelings towards her husband’s online pornography habit this way, “It makes me feel fat and ugly, like he’d rather masturbate to those images than have the real thing.” Oftentimes the wife is hurt when she discovers her husband’s addiction because she feels she is not enough to fulfill her husband’s sexual desires. In the woman's eyes, his involvement with porn implied that she must be physically unattractive, sexually undesirable, worthless, and inadequate as a wife. 

Dating has changed a lot in the past few decades, for better and for worse. It’s great that meeting someone new is so easy now, but the rise of online dating has also opened the door for myriad of social media interactions -sexual activities, cybersex, sexting and catfishing to name a few. 

 Abortion is a deeply painful, personal and complicated topic. There is a deeply crushing inner bondage of conflict and uncertainty. 

A woman may know what led to her abortion but not prepared for the issues left in the wake of her termination. On one hand there is the relief an abortion offers as well as the pain a lost pregnancy gives. As one has made the decision to end a potential human life, one feels they do not have the right to mourn. If a woman acknowledges her sadness or any feelings, it could mean that she has made a terrible decision. Some women feel they have made such a morally, ethically and questionable decision that they do not have the right to any relief. You may be wondering who to trust or what to say without been ushered in to silence and further isolation.